That's not "my way". I asked you to simply stop calling pet names. Hell, ask people if they mind being called a pet name first if you really want to go on with this chat quirk of yours. But assuming we all WANT this type of chat (and then continuing to do it even when told we don't want to hear it) is harassment, plain and simple. It is no better than the people being toxic to each other in faction/nation chat. And I also want to know what is conducive of being bannable in this regard. 4/5 of the examples Sparkle stated were from one person not in my guild. 3 people in my guild were banned for different things that weren't considered vulgar, and the rules are generic enough to where somehow YOU are protected from being banned for verbally harassing other players (let's be clear, that's what this is) but if people make fun of it they get harsher punishments than those being toxic in public chat channels AND getting reported for it.
See, here's what I find funny. In the first quote, you are defensive and say nothing. In your second quote, you use pet names to someone being nice to you. By your own logic, this isn't how you yourself should be behaving. That being said, I don't want to force you to behave my way, so stop putting words in my mouth like you seem to enjoy doing when you try to play the victim to everyone you PM. You ARE to be held responsible because, well...read the PM conversation we had. I asked you THREE TIMES to stop calling me pet names. Why? Because we are not friends, you are not trying to fuck me, and you are not an energy-succubus from the X-Men comics, so in my mind you are using pet names to degrade or insult me. I am not the only one who feels this way, seeing as this thread has only drawn support AGAINST you and not FOR you all by people who have asked you to stop using pet names on them. I can control myself because I have not been banned. Only 2 guild members of mine have been hit for mimicking you in some regard, and I've heard of a handful of others in other guilds who didn't deserve a 3-day ban for something that is 1/10th as painful as someone being called the N-word who should hang themselves for half an hour straight that only got a 12 hour chat ban. I'm asking for a line to be drawn and I'm asking for punishments to make sense.
You are harassing, there is no doubt about it. At no point here, in our PMs or in this thread, are you actually accepting responsibility or fault for your behavior. If you were truly this nice and sweet and non-toxic, you would apologize and say you won't do it again to those who ask, BUT YOU DIDN'T. You are trying to play the victim to get a sympathy card because you want this roleplay of yours to continue into the video game world and are subjecting people to YOUR fantasy and demanding people bow to YOUR will, then try to say that I'm trying to force you into MY will when my simple request is "people are asking you to stop calling them by pet names, you should LISTEN".
