well... my PC is always connected to internet cable, and is just did exeeptions for firewall on bot exit and entrace, try to enter to the server and again the same window...
but i noticed that if i execute the game and try to enter the server while the original ArcheAge is open for some reason i get disconnected on both games...
Tbh i think is problem of the client side or the server bc i usually don't have problems connecting on any server of Archeage...